by Paige Pilarski
This past Thursday as we sat down for our Thirsty Thursday
event our speaker Mr. Alexandre Havard asked us an important question, “What
makes up a person?”
It was exciting to meet him in person, since we had read and
studied his book, “Created for Greatness” in our course on Leadership last
semester.
Today, prominent leadership literature tells us that we have
to know ourselves. In his talk, Mr. Havard led us into an eye-opening way to do
that. He says that every person is made up of temperament and character. A
person’s temperament is something that is unchanging and biological, our
natural tendencies. Character, on the other hand is something that we work on
throughout our lives to build virtues, which can make up for the failings in
our temperament.
While some might think this all sounds too philosophical,
Mr. Havard made it extremely practical; he made a point of it since we are
studying business. He helped to show us how a person’s temperament makes them
naturally more or less strong when it comes to the virtues of prudence,
courage, self-control, justice, magnanimity, and humility. But knowing this,
gives a person the opportunity to build his character on his temperament by
practicing virtue.
As he described the strengths and weaknesses of each
temperament, it was fun to hear the reactions around the room: “That sounds
just like my boss!” “Oh my gosh, that’s me!” Other times, everyone would laugh
because they all knew of someone with the extreme personality he was
describing.
Before reading Mr. Havard’s book, I had never thought about
the importance of the virtue of magnanimity in leadership. He said that a
magnanimous person is both a dreamer, who considers himself worthy of great
things, but also a doer, who takes action to make his dreams a reality. When
you look at a successful leader, whether in business or other areas, you can
see that having a vision and taking the right steps to achieve that vision are
what make him successful. This gave me a new perspective on virtue.
A quote from Mr. Havard: “You must not try to change your
temperament because you are born with the qualities and effects of it. What
will you do with it?”
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